Tuesday, January 16, 2007

Being A Mother

Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after you’ve had a baby
That Somebody doesn’t know that once you’re a mother, “Normal,” is history.

Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by instinct
That Somebody never took a three-year-old shopping.

Somebody said being a mother is boring ….
That Somebody never rode in a car driven by a teenager with a driver’s permit

Somebody said “good” mothers never raise their voices.
That Somebody never came out the back door just in time to see her child hit a golf ball through the neighbor’s kitchen window.


Somebody said you don’t need an education to be a mother.

That Somebody never helped a fourth grader with her math.

Somebody said you can’t love the fifth child as much as you love the first.
That Somebody doesn’t have five children.

Somebody said a mother can find all the answers to her child-rearing questions in the books.
That Somebody never had a child stuff beans up his nose or in his ears.

Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery.

That Somebody never watched her “baby” get on the bus for the first day of kinder garden.

Somebody said a mother’s job is done when her last child leaves home.
That Somebody never had grandchildren

Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don’t need to tell her.
That Somebody isn’t a mother.


Sharing with all the beautiful mummies ...
even if you are not a mother this is just too beautiful not to share!!!


Jay - 听妈妈的话


Friday, January 12, 2007

Sometimes ...


S O M E T I M E S

Sometimes...
when you cry...
no one sees your tears.


Sometimes...
when you are in pain...
no one sees your hurt.


Sometimes...
when you are worried..
no one sees your stress.


Sometimes...
when you are happy..
no one sees your smile .


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But FART!! just ONE time...



And everybody knows!!
HA HA

Friday, January 05, 2007

我的假期

与一班小鬼到海边去吹吹风,玩水,放风筝。赞!


与家人吃一顿温馨的火锅。爽!



到闻名的文化街感受人潮的拥挤,汗流浃背但仍然看到大家开心期待2007。乐!


去看烟花,忍着塞车的痛苦,站了一小时多,结果今年没放烟花,看到马来仔用摩哆或脚车在路上耍杂技。笨!


百年历史的观音亭里,香火不乏,大家都趁着踏入新的一年里来烧香,祈求平安。悟!

Wednesday, January 03, 2007

七年了
。。。。。

又是新的一年了
大家都欢喜庆祝一般 倒数活动 疯狂派对
但我却另一番滋味在心头

。。。。。

七年前
正当全世界欢呼迎接2000年的新年
我与家人却在悲伤与眼泪中度过

坚强的生命没有抵抗住病魔的侵袭
一月一号 她永远闭上了眼睛
在我还来不及孝敬她 还撒娇不够的当儿
她走了 就这样走了
我 无法接受 这刻骨的疼痛
我 感到前所未有的绝望
心中的痛是无法形容的

我知道 你曾经勇敢地面对病魔
在我们面前 你装的乐观与坚强
但在大家背后 在泪水滑落的瞬间
我清楚地感受到你的害怕和绝望 却也发现自己的无能为力

面对病魔的侵袭 我没有丝毫办法来帮你
看着你 一天比一天瘦
头发越掉越多
愈到后期痛苦愈深


我只能用单薄的言语来支持你
我只能用微薄的力量来温暖你
我只能用默默的祈祷来祝福你

我只能~~~~~~这是我仅能做的事情~~~~
我懊恼自己的无能为力
我遗憾不能让你多享福几年
我后悔不多陪在你身边
我的心不断抽搐

面对病魔的痛 你丝毫不在乎自己的痛
而你担心的却是我的学业
姐的未来
哥的生意
弟的工作
往往面临困难时 那头传来她温暖的声线
顿时不再彷徨无助 不再害怕

但是 这一切一切 都不再了
那天 一场豪雨中
我们送她走完人生最后一程
大雨不停打在我颤抖的身上
脸上再也分不清是泪 是雨
那天 正好是我的生日
但比起我心中的痛 生日又算得是什么

妈 女儿好想念你
七年了 尽管身边再没有你的陪伴
女儿对你的思念毫无略减
无论是午夜梦回的思念还是生活中镌刻的点滴

不管你身在何处 女儿依然记挂着你

多少个午夜
往日的回忆涌上心头 我不禁潸然泪下
妈 女儿真的 真的 真的好想念你

。。。。。


她是一个无敌的妈妈